Circles

In this vast and expansive universe, we may have a little life that we call our own, yet it frequently seems to go in circles. The majority of our social relationships are based on these circles; everything that happens to us, including our feelings of happiness, love, grief, and self-worth, takes place within them. We prefer to maintain tight circles. Our circle feels like a world inside this world, filled with our family, close friends, people we love and don't consider to be in a relationship with, and people we love to name.

The thing I adore most about life is that it has provided us with "Science," which educated us about concentric circles, and "Art," which has revealed to us the meaning of life for all this time.

You find someone who shares your passion for Joji's music and you both fall in love? Are you still watching "Interstellar" on a slow weekend because you just can't get enough of it? Even though you love Neruda, do you still make time to read short stories on Instagram? Even though you might be sitting in a different city and drinking a drink I have no idea how to pronounce, one day our circles will come together over a meme, a movie clip, or a short article that you read and really enjoyed. This will allow us to discuss these topics more widely and ultimately discover our own little world.

Keep smiling & Stick with your circle!

Everything that counts

We've spent our entire lives looking for somebody to walk alongside us. Through thick and thin, through random trivia that comes with the day, and through tiny things we go through. However, in moments of self-realization and discovery, time appears to stop. When you're experiencing a significant transformation in your personality, goals, or the way you handle pain, the world appears to move at the same rate as you, while you seem to wait still in a moment of your own. More than those who can keep up with us, we seek people who know when to stand still. 

When you drive down a highway at sixty kilometers per hour with all of your windows open and a conversation going on, the ride is all fun and games. When you understand that this is the person you want to allow in, it's when the red light comes on, the wind stops messing with your hair, the song on the radio becomes irrelevant, and you realize that it's just you and yourself in your thoughts. All that counts is that and only that.

Keep smiling and trust the process!!

Blossoming

Many things change as you get older. You grow apart from those you thought you'd be riding or dying with. Your definition of success shifts from having an unending supply of money to desiring a decent night's sleep in a home with people you care about. You begin reading for various reasons, sometimes because it seems like a cool thing to do, and sometimes because you find beauty in the calmer world of words. You begin to notice pleasant people. You form an opinion of them, sometimes basis what you hear, and sometimes basis what you see.

What I adore about growing up is how it broadens our minds and hearts in many ways.

We perceive everything as a choice. We can see the beginnings of it. We can see it coming to an end. We can see it burning. We can see it blossoming. Perhaps that is what growing up is all about learning how to love and how not to love. Learning to be and let oneself be.

Learning to care while also being carefree. Learning how to live and what it means to die.

Keep Smiling!!

Refuge

The most vulnerable times of the day occur at night.

We tend to link uncertainty with everything when we are blinded by the light. What if something was changed for good? What would happen if we slept through the very following morning? Could this really be the longest night ever?

At that point, we attempt to condense our cosmos.

We might condense it into a late-night phone chat with a close friend. A four-hour conversation with someone we adore. A movie that lets us feel at ease. In the distance, a familiar tune is playing.

We can be vulnerable in this small world when we are around people or things we can safely trust. This small world is subject to change, just like the larger world beyond. It is worth celebrating often because although people, music, and movies come and go, there is one thing that endures—something that is genuine and honest—that supports us in our moments of weakness and attempts to help us stay afloat in the vast, blue universe.

It's you.

KEEP SMILING!!

Traverse

Time travels when you're missing somebody. All of your pleasant memories of them come flooding back to you, including the times you were in the middle of a conversation and noticed little details, the times you laughed at something that was only hilarious when shared with someone else, the odd locations you visited, and the odd emotions you experienced—that don't feel so odd when you're with them. 

Sharing the present moment with someone is how you envision creating memories for the future while you are missing them. Knowing everything they adore—knowing everything they like, whether they prefer lettuce on their sub, binge-watching an F.R.I.E.N.D.S. episode numerous times, or strolling down their favorite lane.

Traveling through time steals your present, makes you forget that you need to get up early for work, that you still have other messages to respond to, and that it appears to be a pricey ticket.

The thing that makes a voyage worthwhile to remember is not what we spend, but rather who we spend it on.

KEEP SMILING!!

Agape

There exists a love that transcends Instagram DMs. It doesn't rely on 12 a.m. birthday calls or the need for immediate responses. It may not comprehend your taste in music, your movie preferences, or your peculiar attachment to your phone. However, it comes in the form of a direct message asking if you're getting enough sleep. It stays awake until 2 a.m. just to ensure you've arrived home safely. It drops everything to make sure your meals are served hot. It understands your emotions with a single glance, translating your every word into Hindi and even developing a strange fondness for the phone when you're not around.

If you are fortunate enough to be in the presence of your parents as you read this, treasure this moment like no other.

KEEP SMILING!!

To A 'Normal' Human Being

I will never stop enjoying seeing your flowers bloom. Despite the droughts of love, despite your roots being heaved from the ground, and despite being stepped on by their wretched boots, you bloom each and every spring. So every time I come to your garden, I sit and smile. 

And I know that no matter what happens, I can come back to this place, and enjoy seeing your flowers bloom.

MEANING:

I think it takes a really special kind of person to not get discouraged by the misfortunes that exist around us. To break time and time again, and still choose bloom, is something that is so bravely beautiful.

I think everyone that has been stepped on and has been led to learn to grow again knows how long and hard of a process it is.

And so if this has been you, and you've had hardships and worries and doubts, & yet you choose to remain steadfast in your pursuit of love & life, then I hope you know how proud I am of you.

Life isn't easy for most and you're doing a beautiful job navigating some really hard shit. So keep going and I will keep cheering you on.

KEEP SMILING!!

Joint Family

There are two types of families in India, nuclear family and joint family, as we consider nuclear family as modern, we don't consider the same way for Joint family system.

There are many advantages of living in a joint family because the work gets shared. Tragedy Becomes Ravelry Because Everyone Works Together So It's A Fun Experience. And happiness multiples because we are more people together and someone has done something good, everyone celebrates together for achievement.a

What happens nowadays is that we celebrate only if we have a good thing, if I have a brother, then we are not able to celebrate because we lack the capacity to feel one-bit people. And everyone contributes according to their own capacity in the family.

And everyone is taken care of: children, old people, handicapped, so old age home is not needed. And the work of old people is also shared so that there is no burden on anyone. Due to all these advantages, a joint family is good, but we should have all this capacity to live in a joint family.

If you feel that your words do not have any importance or if you do not find someone's opinion in your favor, then first listen to them and then make your own decision according to your point of view, like what is more important to you, what comes first as a priority. But don't neglect them nor interrupt them in between, it may create misunderstandings.

The point of this blog is those who think Because of joint family you are in prison, that's totally wrong.

Selfishness, ego, insecurities increase so you cannot be happy even in a nuclear family.

If you want to get success, you want to get happiness, then you have to learn to get along with people.

keep Smiling!

HAPPY NEW YEAR;)

Important Moment Of Life!

What you want maybe that is not good for you So it is necessary that we fix our daily routine with thoughtfulness.

Many people go by planning and many people walk on a moment-to-moment basis. So which way we have to choose, let's see

Ideally, your day should start with powerful, positive thoughts, meaning we should eat spiritual food it impacts a lot in our day, after that we should do some exercise because we sit for an hour and we should freshen our mind for the whole day. And after that, we should go according to the day we have planned and we should write it down and relaxation, recreation we can put in this.

We should not put a lot of pressure on ourselves but doing all this thing in the planned way, what makes it that we feel enthusiastic so that you are curious about what to do today and wake up looking forward to the day.

We Should accept that if you are not used to having a daily routine so gradually you have to incorporate that because what happens is that the mind resists disciples.

For example, there is no need to get up at 5:00 a.m., get up half an hour before whatever time you are and then slowly increase it what happens to it is that the mind doesn't resisted and be charitable with yourself and do it gradually, But it is important that when you are comfortable you include one more thing that is daily routine!

Follow yourself. Stay happy and cheerful. :)

keep loving!

THE MONSTER INSIDE

Everything you see in this world is a reflection of your own worth when you feel oneness with people then you see good things in them,  you don't feel insecure. In this digital age world, we are all in a rat-cat race. We always care about the success of others more than our own success, whether it is professional life or personal. We often feel jealous instead of being happy seeing other people's progress. Many times, we feel this feeling by seeing our loved ones also growing. What is the reason behind this !? Let's know this :

Jealously appears in different ways when you see siblings, partners or colleagues is looking better than you, smarter more popular, performing better in their career, so negative feelings would arise in you. It arises in people who have low self-esteem and when there is a negative attitude towards loyalty and the feeling of being different from everyone else. This is what happens when we don't have self-sufficiency or we have insecurities inside. You start hating that person, try to humiliate them, speak badly about them, but the truth is you can never harm the other person or destroy them. However, you just push yourself down. One thing is clear, Jealously will never harm another person but look at the storm it blows in you. You get agitated, lose your sleep, get obsessed with another person, and find many ways to harm them. The result is that your talents, ability, and desires remain hidden. All your energy is wasted just thinking of dragging that person down and you yourself fail. So Jealousy, Competition, and Bitterness make your life hell. How can you find happiness on the outside when you are not happy on the inside?

Jealousy is a feeling, is an emotion, its root cause is wished or desire. A modification of desire is Jealousy.

The mind does not have the capacity to think or tolerate injustice. Everything you see in this world is a restriction of your mind. When you feel the perfect fit in people, you see good things in them. The important thing is that you really admire that person's qualities and want to achieve. For that, you have to understand that he has done all this with hard work and effort. And you can have that too.  If you work so hard you can reach their level or even surpass them. So change your attitude and be positive. 

As said by William Shakespeare: 

"O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;

It is the green-eyed monster, which doth mock

The meat it feeds on."

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HAPPY WAY IN MISADVENTURE THINGS !!!

Many relationships are formed in our life, whether it is friendship or love or native relationship, every way sees its ups and downs. And the threads of some of them are inadvertently broken as well, this question comes many times into our mind, should we reconnect that relationship? And this question must have come to your mind, especially in this Lockdown.

Let us discuss some positive ways:

There is no point in going back to a person if he/she leaves at his own free will, but if the man gets angry with the Impulsive, stepping up the Impulsive step, so there is no harm in going back. You can bring them back to your life.

One must see the difference between temporary mood and permanent determination. Yes, if there are deep differences, then yes, it is good that we should move ahead. 

The problem is attachment.

Now, what is attachment,  true love plus selfishness, 

That selfishness raises our expectations, and wishes are unrealistic, which are not possible to complete. Due to this, quarrels, conflicts, increase. And in the end that relationship breaks up. Stay away from this attachment, because of attachment you lose connection with the people closest to you and lose them.

If you have separated from them, because of your mistake, your doing or your implication, or any wrongful fame, then it is your duty to go back and confess the blame.

So here the choice is yours, what you want! separation or togetherness!! Choose wisely.

 Stay Happy!

Keep Smiling :)